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Kaho Hayashi
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CONTENTS ๅคฉ็ฉบใฎใฉใใ / Love Hotel in the Sky ไธ็ทใซๆ ็ป่ฆใ / Let's watch a movie together ๅซใๅซใใฏๅซใชใใ ใ / No means no ็ธๆใฎ่ฒฌไปปใใใชใใซใ่ฒฌไปป /
Their responsibilities, and also your responsibilities
ๆง็ๅๆ / Sexual consent ๆฅๆฌใฎๆง็ๅๆๅนดไปค / Age of consent in Japan ๆฅๆฌใงใใซใฏ้ฃใใ / It's hard to find pills in Japan Egazine @equal.apu
ใ ๅคฉ็ฉบใฎใฉใใ ใ ไธ้จใฎไบบใ ใซใใใ APU ๆฝ่จญใใใฎใใใซ ๅผใฐใใฆใใใใจใ็ฅ ใฃใฆใใพใใ๏ผ่ฆชๅพกใ ใใใใใใใช้ซๆ ก็ ๅใใฎๅญฆๆ ก่ชฌๆไผใงใฏ ใใใชๅ่ชใๅคฉๅฐใใฒ ใฃใใๅธฐใฃใฆใๅบใฆใ ใชใใงใใใใใใ็ฅ ใใชใไบบใๅคใใฃใใ ใใใใพใใใ ใๅคฉ็ฉบใใฏ APU ็ใ้ ป ็นใซไฝฟใฃใฆใใ่จ่ใง ใใใญใ APU ใญใฃใณใ ในใใใๅฑฑใฎไธใๆใ ใพใใใใใชๅคฉ็ฉบใซใ ใใใฉใใใใคใพใใ ๅฏๆณใใใใจใใใใ ใใงใใๅคฉ็ฉบใฎใฉใใ ใฏAPใใฆในใฎใใจใๆ ใใพใใ
ๅฎ้APใใฆในใซไฝใใงใ ใ็งใ่จใใใฎใฏใใพใ ใใชใใก้้ใใงใฏใชใ ใจใใใใจใใใใไธๆ ใใใจๅไปใใใใฆใใพ ใใ็ด ๆดใใใใใใ ใ ใใใใผใใณใฐใปใณในใฏ ็ด ๆดใใใใใๅ ๅฎนใฏๆฑบ ใใฆ็ด ๆดใใใใชใใๅฎ ้ใซๅคฉ็ฉบใฎใฉใใใไฝฟ็จ ใใใใจใใใไบบใซๅใ ใใใใใชใใๅไบบใ่ฆช ๅพกใใใซ่ธใๅผตใฃใฆ่จใ ใใใใชใปใใฏในใใฆ ใพใใใ๏ผ ใใใฏๆฌๅฝใซ่ฏใๆฉไผใ ใจใใใใจใงใใพใใจใ ใใใซๅใใใๅใใใฆ ในใซใใใๆ้ปใฎไบ่งฃใช ใฉใชใฉใๅฐใ่ฉฑใๅใฃใฆ ใฟใพใใใใใพใใฏใ้จ ๅฑใใผใใใใ
ใใใฏไฝใงใใ๏ผ
"Love hotel in the sky" Do you know that this term refers to one of APU's facilities? Actually, not many people know about this, because such terms could never be used at information sessions for high school students, where their parents usually attend. "Tenkuโ ( ) is a word frequently used by APU students; it refers to the top of the mountain where APU campus is located. And the "love hotel" located there (tenku) refers to a place for people to sleep and spend the night. So you guessed it, folks, the socalled โLove hotel in the skyโ refers to our very own, AP House.
ๅคฉ็ฉบ
I have stayed at AP House and have seen for myself that, this term isn't technically wrong. Itโs just - a very creative way of naming it. How wonderful. However, having a creative name doesnโt mean that it can be justified. I'd like to ask those who have actually used the term โlove hotel in the skyโ in its literal meaning. Do you take pride in using such terms when talking to your friends and parents? We have a really good opportunity here, so let's talk a bit about the rumors that are whispered around, and the implicit understanding of AP house.
WHAT IS IT? WHAT IS IT
ใไธ็ทใซๆ ็ป่ฆใใ
ใใใฏใใฆในใใใใใจใใใใ ๅคงๅญฆ็ใใใใใใใใใชใใงใ ใญใใ้จๅฑใง2ไบบใฃใใใงๆ ็ป่ฆใ ใใใจ่จใใ OK ใใใใคใพใใฏ ใใปใใฏในOKใ ใใชใใฆ่ใใฆใ ใไบบๆฌๅฝใซๅคใใงใ ( ใใชใใใญ ใ)ใใใใใงๆๅบใใใฆใๆๅฅ่จ ใใชใใใจใใ่จ่ใใใ่ใใพ ใใ ... ่จใฃใฆใใใซๆฑบใพใฃใฆใใ ้ใซใใใช็ถๆณไธใงใNOใใไผใ ใใใจใใใไบบใซ่จใใใใใใ ใ๏ผ็ด ๆดใใใ๏ผๅจใใใใใใ ใใฃใฆ่จใใใ๏ผๆฐใซใใชใใง๏ผ ใใชใใฎ่กๅใฏ้้ใฃใฆใชใใ๏ผ
ๆฌ ๅฝ ใซ ๆ ็ป ่ฆ ใ ใ ใ ใง ใ ใ ๏ผ
้ใซใไธ็ทใซๆ ็ปใฟใใใง้จๅฑๆฅใ ใฃใฆใใจใฏใคใฃใฆใใใใจใๆใฃใฆ ใไบบใใคใใใฆใไปๆนใชใใฃใฆๆใฃ ใฆใไบบใใใฎๆฌใไธๅบฆ้ ญใใใใใฃ ใใใ่ใใใใใซใ่ชญใใงใฟใฆใป ใใใใใใใใใใชใฎใฏๆง็ๅๆ ใซใชใใชใใฃใฆใใจใใใใใฏใใ ใใไฝๅบฆใใใใใจใใใใใชใ้ ใใงใใใ็บๆณใฎ่ปขๆใๅคงๅใงใใ ใใใฆใใ๏ผใใฃใฆๆฏๅ่ใๆนใๆฏ ๅๅใ ใใๆใใซใชใฃใฆ่ใใพใ ใ๏ผ (็ฅใใใใฉ) ใใผใใใผใใใ ๆนใฏๅฎ่ทตใใฆใฟใฆใๆๆณใใ ใใ๏ผ ใๅพ ใกใใฆใพใใ
โLetโs watch a movie togetherโ This is more of a general college student thing than something exclusive of AP House. People would ask questions like, โDo you want to watch a movie together in my room?โ and the other person would say OK. The thing is, many people think that this basically means saying OK to having sex (or so it implies). I have heard people saying things like โI just went with it and I couldnโt refuse (to have sex)โ... But I think otherwise. If you donโt want to do it, Iโm sure itโs alright to say so. In fact, here's what Iโd like to say to those who stood for themselves and said โNOโ in such situations: That's great! Excellent! Have people told you you're crazy? Don't worry about it! You're doing the right thing!
And for those of you who think that coming into a room to "watch a movie together" means it's okay to have sex, I suggest you read this volume of Egazine from top-down โ carefully, like your life depends on it. Then you'll see that that doesnโt count as sexual consent. It's important to understand that changing your mind to engage in any sexual activity is fine, even if you have done it many times before. Every time you or your partner asks, "Is it okay if I do this?", donโt you think it becomes a little more fresh and new? (Well itโs not like I know.) But if you have a partner, give it a try and let us know what you think! Weโre looking forward to hearing from you!
ARE WE ONLY WATCHING A MOVIE?
ใใฆใใใใงๅคๆงๆงๆบขใใAPUใชใใง ใฏใฎๅ้กใๆตฎไธใใฆใใใใใงใใใ ใใใใใใฎไธใงใฎๅคๆงๆงใAPUใใ ใใชใใผใใง่ฌ็พฉใ้ใใฆใใใใใ ใใชใใฎใงใไปฃใใใซใใใงใฏใชใใฆ ใฟใพใใใใ ็ธๆใ่ก็บไธญใซใใคใกใฆใใใคใคใ ใ ใจ่จใใใใ็ใไธใใใใใฎไธใคใฎ ๆๆฎตใจใใฆๅคใใฎไบบใไฝฟ็จใใฆใใใ ใจใๅฆๅฎใใพใใ (ๅฐใชใใจใๆฅๆฌใง ใฏ)ใใ ใใฉๆใ ใๆฌๆฐใฎใใคใคใ ใใจ ๆผๆใฎใใคใคใ ใใๅบๅฅใงใใชใไบบใ ใใใใใงใใ็นใซใใใฏAPUใ ใใ ใใๆตฎไธใใฆใใๅ้กใใใใใพใใ ใใใๅซใๅซใใๅฅฝใใฎใใกใใชใใฆ ๆๅใ1ใใชใใชใๅฝใใๆฅใไบบใใใ ใใใใใพใใใ ใใใชไบบใใใใใใๅซใใใฏใๅซใ ไปฅๅคใฎไฝ่ ใงใใชใใงใใใญ๏ผใใใ ่ชๅๅคๅฅใงใใชใไบบใใใใๅใใใช ใใใใใใชใใ
ใฉ100%ๅคๅฅใงใใฆใ่ชไฟกใใชใใใฃใฆ ใชๆใใงๅพฎๅฆใชไบบใๆฌก่จใใใใใจใ ใใใใใๆญขใใใๅใงใใ ใใฎใพใพ็ถใใฆ็ฏ็ฝช่ ๆฑใใใใฆใไป ๆนใใชใใใจใจ่ฆใใฆใใใฆใใ ใ ใใใใใใใ่ชๅใฏๆฌๅฝใฎโๅซโๅใ ใใ๏ผใใจๆใฃใฆใใใ่ชญใฟ้ฃใฐใใ ใจใใใใชใใไพๅคใงใฏใใใพใใใ ไปไธๅบฆใ่ชๅใฎ่ก็บใๆฏใ่ฟใฃใฆใฟใฆ ใใ ใใใใใผใใใผใจ่ฉฑใใฆใฟใฆใ ใใใใใใใพใใใ่ฒดๆนใๆใคใใฎ ่ชไฟกใๅ้ใใ ใฃใใฃใฆใใจใๅคๆใ ใใใใใงใไธใคๅฎๅฟใใฆ ใปใใใฎใฏใๅบๅฅใใงใใชใ ใใชใใใใชใใฎใใผใใใผ ใๆชใใใใงใฏใชใใฃใฆ ใใจใๆชใใฎใฏ ใๆผซ็ปใAVใใใปใใฏใน ใฎๆ็งๆธใใชใใใจใใ ๆฅๆฌใฎ็พ็ถใงใใ
ๅซใๅซใใฏ ๅซใชใใ ใ
This brings us to the unique issue of diversity at APU: diversity in bed. Since there aren't really any classes that give lectures on this subject, let's talk about it here instead.
I don't deny that many people (at least in Japan) use the phrase "Stop" or "I don't want to" as a way to liven things up when theyโre engaging in sexual activity. But sometimes it seems that some people can't distinguish between a serious "NO" and an acted "no". Now, this may become an issue. Especially in APU, where there may be people who come from cultures where the difference between "I don't like it," and "I like it," is almost non-existent. For many people, "I don't like it" wouldn't mean anything other than that, right? Those who are a bit more sensitive, however, might think, "Oh, maybe this person can't tell me directly about how theyโre actually feeling," or "I'm not sure what they mean, and I'm not confident that I can tell 100%." The next time someone says anything that implies that they don't want it, you should stop immediately. Remember, if you were to keep going in this situation, youโd be committing an act of crime. And if you think you always know what your partner really wants, the importance of sexual consent applies even more to you. Take a moment and reflect on your actions. You need to talk with your partner about what you both want, instead of just making assumptions that might be potentially wrong. If you canโt really tell what counts as sexual consent and what doesnโt, donโt worry. It's not you or your partner's fault. The problem lies in the current situation (especially in Japan), where information about sex can only be found in manga and porn.
"NO" MEANS
"NO"
็ธๆใฎ่ฒฌไปปใ ใใชใใซใ่ฒฌไปป ้ฟๅฆใใๆง็ๅๆใใใ ใใฃใใใใฆใใใใใฎ ็ด ๆดใใใใใชใใ่ชๅ ใฐใใ้ ๅผตใฃใฆใใพใใ ใ๏ผ้ฟๅฆใใๆง็ๅๆใ ใใใใฃใใใใฆใใใ ใใผใใใผใๆใคใใใฎ ใใชใใ็ธๆใซไปปใใฃใ ใใงใฏใใใพใใใ๏ผ ใปใใฏในใใใใใจใฏๆช ใใใจใงใฏใใใพใใ ใใใใฎ่ก็บใซใฏ่ฒฌไปปใ ไปใใพใจใใพใใใใผใ ใใผใซใจใฃใฆ่ฏใใใผใ ใใผใซใชใใใใใ่ฏใ ใใผใใใผใ่ฆๆฅตใใใ ใใใใไธ็ทใซๆงใซใคใ ใฆๅญฆใใงใใใพใใใ๏ผ
Do you feel like youโre the only one in the relationship whoโs making efforts to obtain contraception and sexual consent? Or, do you leave it all to your partner? There's nothing wrong with having sex. But remember that it has to come with mutual responsibility. Now, let's learn about what makes a good partner in a relationship and how to become one!
THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES, AND ALSO YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES
ๅๆ ๆง็ ๅๆ ๆง็ ๅๆ
SEXUAL CONSENT
ๆง็ๅๆใฃใฆใชใใ ใใ? SO, WHAT EXACTLY IS CONSENT?
ๆง็ๅๆใจใฏใใปใใฏในใฎๅใซๅฟ ใ่กใใใในใใๆ็ฝใชใ่ก็บใซ ๅฏพใใๅๆใฎใใจใงใใใใไปฅไธใงใใใไปฅไธใงใใใใพใใใใ ใใใใๆง็ๅๆใงใใ่ฌ็ฉใใขใซใณใผใซใซใใฃใฆๆ่ญใใฏใฃใใ ใใชใไบบใๅคๆญใไธใใใจใใงใใชใไบบใซๅฏพใใฆใฏๅๆใๅใใใจ ใฏใงใใพใใใใชใใชใใๆง็ๅๆใฏ โๆ็ฝใงโ โ็พๅจ้ฒ่กๅฝขใงโ โๅ ใใใใใโ โ็ฉๆฅต็ใซ่กใใใโๅฟ ่ฆใใใใใใงใใๅๆใๅใ ใชใใพใพ่กใๆง่ก็บใฏใๆงๆดๅ(ใฌใคใ)ใจๆใใใใฆใใพใใพใใ ่จใ้ใใงใฏใใใพใใใใใใฏๅ จๅกใๆไปใชใใใฐใชใใชใๆง่ก ็บใซๅฏพใใๅ ฑ้่ช่ญใงใใ Consent is a voluntary, enthusiastic, and clear agreement to engage in sexual activity. Nothing more or less than that. There is no room for different views on what consent is. People incapacitated by drugs or alcohol cannot consent. Remember that consent should be: clear, ongoing, coherent, and voluntary. If not, then itโs sexual assault. Nonconsensual sex is rape. It should be as simple as that. And everyone should be on the same page here.
ใใใๆง็ๅๆใฃใฆ ใฉใใใฃใฆๅใใฎ๏ผ ๆง็ๅๆใฏใใณใใใญใณใพใงใใใใใๆง็ใช่ก็บใซๅฟ ่ฆ ใชในใใใใงใใใใชใใจใใชใใฎใใผใใใผใใฉใใช้ข ไฟๆงใงใใใใฏ้ขไฟใใใพใใใไธๅค้ใใฎ้ขไฟใงใ้ทๆ ็ใงๆทฑใ้ขไฟใงใใ่ชๅใ็ธๆใจไฝใใฉใใพใงใใใใฎ ใใใใฃใใใจ่ฉฑใๅใใใใใพใงใใจใใๅข็็ทใ่ช็ฑ ใซๆฑบใใฆๆงใใพใใใๅฅๅ จใชๆง็้ขไฟใ็ฏใไธใงใฏใใใช ใใจใใผใใใผใฎๅๆนใๆใใใใจใชใใ่ชๅใฎๆๆใไผ ใใใใ็ฐๅขใไฝใๅบใใชใใใฐใชใใพใใใ ๅ ทไฝ็ใช่ฉฑใใใฆใฟใพใใใใไพใใฐใใใชใใๆง็ๅๆ ใๅใใใซใปใใฏในใๅงใใใใจใใใใผใใใผใซๆๅฆใ ใใใจใใพใใใใชใใฏๆ ใฆใใใใใใพใใใๆใใ่ฆ ใใใใใใใพใใใใฉใใชๆๆ ใๆฑใใใฏใใฆใใใๆ ใ่จฑใใใชใใใจใฏใNoใใจไผใใใใใซใ้ขใใใใ่ก ็บใ็ถใใใใจใใใใจใใปใใฏในใใใใฏใใใซ้ขใใ ่ก็บใไธๅฎใๆๆๅฟใป็ฝชๆชๆใๅงๅใฎไธ่กใใใจใฏใๅผท ๅถใใซๅคใใพใใใใใใใๆง็ๅๆใๅใใใซ่กใใใ ใปใใฏในใฏๆงๆดๅใงใใใจ่จใใใ็ฑ็ธใงใใใใชใใ่ชฐ ใใจใคใใฃใคใใฃใใฆใใๆใซใใผใใใผใใใใใฏใใช ใ่ช่บซใใใไปฅไธใฎ่ก็บใๆใใ ๆใใๆฐใ้ฒใพใชใๆใฏ ใจใใใใไธๅบฆๆ้ใใใใฆใฟใพใใใใใใใฆใใฎใพใพ ็ถใใใใฎใใใใใจใไปๅใฏใใใพใงใงๆญขใใฆใใใใ ใฎใใ็ธๆใซ่ใใป่ฉฑใๅใๆ้ใใจใใพใใใใใใใจ ๅๆใซใใใชใใใใใใชใใใจใฏ่ชๅใใใใใชใใ ใไปใฎใใจใใใฆใใใใใ ใใใจ็ธๆใฎๆฑบๆญใๅใๅ ฅใ ใๆบๅใฏใงใใฆใใใจไผใใฆใใใใจใ่ฉฑใใใใ้ฐๅฒๆฐ ใไฝใใใฎใงใฏใชใใงใใใใใ
ๆง็ใช่ก็บใๅงใใๅใซ็ธๆใฎๆฐๆใกใ็ขบ่ชใใๅฎๅฟใงใ ใ็ฐๅขใไฝใๅบใใใจใฏใใชใใฎ็พฉๅใงใใๆง็ๅๆใ็ขบ ่ชใใใใใช่จ่ใฏใ ใผใใๅฃใใฆใใพใใฎใงใฏ...ใจใใ ๅฟ้ ใใใฆใใใใใใใพใใใญใใใใใๅ่ฟฐใใ้ใ ๅๆใใจใใใซ่กใๆง่ก็บใฏๆดๅใซๅคใใพใใใใ ใผใใ ๅฃใใใใชใใฃใใใฏ ๆงๆดๅใฎ่จใ่จณใซใฏไฝฟใใพใใใใ ใ่ฆใใฆใใใฆใใ ใใใ ใใใฆใใใ๏ผใใๅคงไธๅคซ๏ผใ ใ็ถใใฆใใ๏ผใใจ็ธๆใจใณใใฅใใฑใผใทใงใณใใจใใใจ ใๆ ใใชใใงใใ ใใใ็ธๆใฎๆ ๅบฆใไป่ใ ใใงใ็ธๆใฎ ๆฐๆใกใ่ชญใฟๅใใใจใฏใงใใพใใใ
HOW DO I ASK FOR CONSENT? Before engaging in any kind of sexual activity, itโs really important to have consent. In every relationship, whether casual or long-term, talking freely about what you both want and setting boundaries is crucial. In a healthy sexual encounter, both parties should feel comfortable communicating their wants without fear. If you initiate sex and you become angry, upset, or demanding when your partner refuses, this is unacceptable. When someone engages in sexual or nonsexual activity out of fear, guilt, or pressure, itโs called coercion โ and itโs a form of sexual assault. If you're having sexual activity with someone and they refuse to go any further or appear reluctant, take a break and ask them if they're okay doing it or if they'd want to take a break. Tell them you don't want to do anything they don't feel completely comfortable with, and that waiting and doing something else is fine. It is the obligation of the one initiating sexual activity to ensure that the other person feels comfortable and safe during any sexual interaction. You may be concerned that asking for consent will ruin the whole mood, but the alternative โ potentially sexually assaulting someone โ is unacceptable. It's crucial to ask if they're comfortable, if they want it, and if they want to keep going, so maintain communication and don't make assumptions.
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ๆง็ๅๆใๅใๆถใใใจใฏใฉใใ ใ่ก็บใ้ฒใ ใงใใใใจๅฏ่ฝใงใใ็ธๆใๅๆใๅใๆถใใ ๅ ดๅใฏ็ดใกใซ่ก็บใ่พใใฆใใ ใใใ ๆไบบใ ใใใไปใๅใฃใฆใใใใใจใใฃใฆๆง่ก ็บใ่กใๅฟ ่ฆใฏใใใพใใใๆขใซ็ธๆใจๆง่ก็บ ใใใใใจใใใใใใจ่จใฃใฆๆง็ๅๆใฎ้็จ ใ้ฃใฐใใใจใใใฃใฆใฏใชใใชใใใจใงใใ ๆจฉๅใๅใไฝฟใฃใฆๅผทๅถ็ใซ่จใใใๅๆใฏใๅ ๆใซๅฝใใใพใใใๆๆๅฟใ็ฝชๆชๆใใ่จใฃใฆ ใใพใฃใใYesใใฏๅๆใๅใใใจใฏ่จใใชใ ใจ่ฆใใฆใใใพใใใใ ไฝใ่จใใชใ็ถๆ ใ่ฟ็ญใ็กใใจใใใใจใฏใ ๅๆใฏๅใใฆใใชใใจใใใใจใงใใ ๆง็ๅๆใฏๆ็ขบใงๅใใใใใใชใใใฐใชใใพ ใใใ1ใคใฎ่ก็บใซๅฏพใใๅๆใฏไปใฎ่ก็บใธใฎ ๅๆใๆๅณใใพใใใใใฎ้ฝๅบฆ็ขบ่ชใใๅฟ ่ฆใ ใใใพใใ ็ธๆใ่ฌใๆ็จใใฆใใๅ ดๅใ้ ๆฐใๅธฏใณใฆใ ใๅ ดๅใๆ็ขบใง็ถ็ถ็ใชๆง็ๅๆใใจใใใจ ใซใ็นใซๆฐใใคใใชใใใฐใชใใพใใใ
ๆง็ๅๆ ใฌใคใใฉใคใณ 01 Consent can be withdrawn at any time. All sexual 02
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QUICK GUIDELINES FOR CONSENSUAL SEX
activity must stop when consent is withdrawn. Being in a relationship doesnโt oblige anyone to engage in sexual activity. Consent should never be implied or assumed, even if youโre in a relationship or have had sex before. Thereโs no consent when you use your power, trust, or authority to coerce someone into sex. You donโt have consent if you use guilt, intimidation, or threats, even if that person says โyes.โ Saying yes out of fear is not consent. Silence or a lack of response is not consent. Be clear and concise when getting consent. If youโre initiating sex with someone whoโs under the influence of drugs or alcohol, youโre responsible for obtaining ongoing, clear consent.
ใYesใใๆๅณใใ่จ่
Words and phrases that indicate verbal consent
ใNoใใๆๅณใใ่จ่
Words and phrases that indicate you do NOT have consent
้ฃฒ้ ใจ่ฌใจๆง็ๅๆ
ใใฎไบบใ่ฌใใขใซใณใผใซใชใฉใไฝใ ใใฎๅฝฑ้ฟไธใซใใๅ ดๅใใๆง็ๅๆใฎ ๅฟ ่ฆๆงใจ้่ฆๆงใฏๅคใใใพใใใๆ็ขบ ใงๅใใใใใๆง็ๅๆใ็ฉๆฅต็ใซ็ขบ ่ชใใๅฟ ่ฆใใใใพใใใฉใใใซๅฏใ ใใใใชใใจ่ตทใไธใใฃใฆใใใใช ใใใพใฃใใๆญฉใใชใใๅๅใใฆใใ ใชใฉใฎๆณฅ้ ็ถๆ ใซใใๆใฏๆง็ๅๆใ ็ขบ่ชใใในใใงใฏใใใพใใใใๅๆ ใๅใใใจใใงใใพใใใ ็ธๆใๅ่ฟฐใใใใใช็ถๆ ใงใฏใชใ ใฃใใจใใฆใใใขใซใณใผใซใ่ฌใๆ็จ ใใฆใใใจ็ฅใฃใฆใใๅ ดๅใฏใใใฆใ ใใใฃใฆๅฟใฎๅบใใๆฌๅฝใซๆใฃใฆ ใ๏ผใใใใใฏใกใใใจ่ใใไธใงใฎ ๆฑบๆญ๏ผใใจ่ใใฆใฟใฆใใใฆใใ ใ ใใใใ่ฒดๆนใใไปใฎ็ธๆใซใฏๆง็ๅ ๆใซใคใใฆ่ใใใใใช่ฝๅใ็กใใ ใจๅฐใใงใๆใฃใๅ ดๅใฏใ็ธๆใฎ่ฟ็ญ ใใชใใงใใๆฌกใฎในใใใใธ้ฒใใใจ ใฏ้ฟใใในใใงใใใใ
CONSENT UNDER THE INFLUENCE In the case that either person is under the influence, the definition of consent โ clear, ongoing, coherent, and voluntary โ is just as important as ever. If someone is stumbling or canโt stand without leaning on something, slurring their words, falling asleep, or has vomited, theyโre incapacitated and cannot consent. If someone doesnโt exhibit any of the above signs, but you know that theyโve been drinking or taking drugs, try asking something like, โDo you feel clear enough to be making decisions about sex?โ And regardless of what your partner says in response to that, if YOU feel theyโre not clear enough, then just stop.
ใNOใใๆๅณใใใใใใใชใ ๆ ๅบฆใไป่
ๅผทใๆผใ้ขใใใใปๅผใ้ขใใป็ฎใ้ธใใใป ๆจชใซ้ ญใใตใใป้ปใ่พผใใป็ธๆใฎ่ก็บใธใฎ่ฟ ็ญใ็กใใปๆณฃใใปๆใใฃใฆใใ,ๆฒใใใงใใ ใใใซ่ฆใใ POSSIBLE NONVERBAL CUES THAT INDICATE YOU DONโT HAVE CONSENT
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Pushing away Pulling away Avoiding eye contact Shaking their head no Silence Not responding physically Crying Looking scared or sad
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ๆฅๆฌใฎๆง็ๅๆๅนด้ฝข Age of consent in Japan ๆฅๆฌใฎๆง็ๅๆ้ฝขใฏ ไธ็ๆไฝ...?
ๆฅๆฌใฎๆง็ๅๆๅนดไปคใไธ็ๆไฝๆฐดๆบ ใซใใใจใใไบๅฎใ่ใใใใจใฏใใ ใพใใ๏ผๆฅๆฌใฎๆง็ๅๆๅนดไปคใใคใพใ ๆง็ใช่ก็บใ่กใๅๆใปๅๆใใใใฎ ใซๅๅใช่ฝๅใใใใจๅคๆญใใใๅนดไปค ใฏ13ๆญณใ่จใๆใใใฐใไธๆนใ12ๆญณ ไปฅไธใฎๅญไพใงใใๅ ดๅใใใใฏๅผทๅงฆใป ใฌใคใใงใใใจใฟใชใใใใจใใใใจ ใงใใไธ็ใฎไปใฎๅฝใ ใจๆฏในใฆใใๆฅ ๆฌใฎๆง็ๅๆๅนดไปคใฏใใชใไฝใใจใใ ใซใใใจ่จใใใงใใใใใใฃใชใ ใณใปใใคใธใงใชใขใปใขใณใดใฉใฎใใใ 3ใถๅฝใฎใฟใใๆฅๆฌใใใไฝใๆง็ๅ ๆๅนดไปคใๅฎใใฆใใพใ. ๆฅๆฌใงใฏใ็ธ ๆใ12ๆญณไปฅไธใงใใใฐๅๆใฎๆ็กใฏ้ข ไฟใชใใ13ๆญณไปฅไธใฎๆนใซ5ๅนดไปฅไธใฎๆฒ ๅฝนใใใใใใพใใ ๆง็ๅๆๅนดไปคใซ้ขใใๆฅๆฌใฎๆณๅพใซ ใฏใ้ฆใๅพใใใใชใใใใชๅ ๅฎนใฎใ ใฎใๅคใใใใพใใใใฎไธญใงใ็นใซ่จ ใใใใฎใฏใๆง็ๅๆๅนดไปคใซใคใใฆ่จ ใใใๅๆณใฏ1907ๅนดใซๅใใฆๅถๅฎใ ใใฆใใไธๅบฆใๅคๆดใใใฆใใชใใจใ ใใใจใ100ๅนดไปฅไธใๅใซไฝใใใๆ ไปฃใซใใใใชใๅๆณใๆชใ ใซไฝฟใฃใฆใ ใใฎใงใใไบใค็ฎใฏใๆง็ๅๆใซ้ขใ ใๅๆณใๆๆงๅใใใซใใใพใพๆพ็ฝฎใ ใใฆใใใจใใใใจใ
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AGE OF CONSENT
JAPAN'S AGE OF CONSENT IS THE LOWEST IN THE WORLD? The age of consent in Japan has been a highly controversial topic, as itโs one of the lowest in the world. 13 is considered the minimum age where minors can consent to sexual activity. This means that those who engage in sexual activity with children of 12 years and younger can be prosecuted for statutory rape. In comparison to other countries, Japanโs age of consent is fairly low. The Philippines, Nigeria, and Angola are the only three countries in the world with a lower age of consent than Japan. In Japan, having sex with someone who is under the age of 13 can get a minimum punishment of five years in prison. There are quite a few red flags here in the laws around Japanโs age of consent. The main one being how outdated its foundations are. Just imagine, the Penal Code of Japan has been unchanged since it was first enacted back in 1907, which is over 100 years ago! Donโt you think itโs about time to make some changes?
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ๆฅๆฌใซๆฅใใฐใใใฎไบบใซใฏ็นใซ็ฅใฃใฆ ใใฆใปใใใใจใใใใฏๆฅๆฌใงใใซใๆ ใซใใใฎใฏใใใ้ฃใใใจใใใใจใๅฆ ๅจ ใๆใ๏ผใใซ้ฃฒใใฐใใใใใใจใๆ ใฃใกใใฃใฆใใใชใใใใใใชใใชใๆฅ ๆฌใงใฏ้ฃใใใใงใใใใชใใฎๆฏๅฝใงใฏ ไฝๅฎน้ใใซใ็ทๆฅ้ฟๅฆ่ฌใ่กใฎ่ฌๅฑใงๆ ใซๅ ฅใใใใใใพใใใใใๆฅๆฌใงใฏใฉ ใกใใๆ็จใซ็ ้ขใงใฎ่จบๅฏใๅฟ ้ ใซใชใ ใพใใใใใๅคๆฎตใ้ซใใใฉใใใใใ ใจ ใ ใ ใจ ใ 1 ใท ใผ ใ 3,000 ๅ ๅ ๅพ ใ ้ซ ใใใคใพใใๆฅๆฌใงใใซใๆ็จใใใใจ ๆใใจใๆ้ใใ้ใใใใฃใฆใใพใใ ใใใซๆฅๆฌใงใฏใใใซใซๅฏพใใ็่งฃใ ใพใ ใพใ ใงใใใใซใๆ็จใใ็็ฑใฏไบบ ใใใใใงใใใญใ
็็ใชใฉใซใใ่บซไฝใธใฎ่ฒ ่ทใ่ปฝๆธใ ใใใใใ ใฃใใใ้ฟๅฆใฎใใใ ใฃใ ใใใใใๆฅๆฌใงใฏใๅฐใชใใใใใ ใซใ้ฃฒใใงใใ=้ฟๅฆใฎ็บ=ใใใใ ใจใใๅใฃใใคใกใผใธใๆใคไบบใใใพ ใ ใซๅคใใใพใใๅใฟใใใงใใ๏ผใ ใใใใงใใ๏ผใใใงใใญใ้้ใใ ใใพใใใใใซใ้ฃฒใใฎใซใ็็ใฎใ ใใ ใใ!!ใใจ่จใ่จณใๅฟ ่ฆใชๆฅๆฌใฏ ็ขบใใซใใใใใงใใ ใใใใฏไปๅพๆฅๆฌใ่งฃๆฑบใใฆใใใช ใใใฐใชใใชใ่ชฒ้กใงใใใใจใซ้้ ใใฏใชใใฎใงใใใใใใ็พ็ถใงใใ ใจ่ฆใใฆใใใฆใใใ ใใใใ
ๆฅๆฌใงใใซใฏ้ฃใใ ITโS HARD TO FIND PILLS IN JAPAN
Why is it difficult? If you've just arrived in Japan, you should know something in particular: it's very difficult to get the pill in Japan. Afraid of getting pregnant? If you think you can just take the pill, it's not that easy in Japan. In your home country, you may be able to get lowdose pills or emergency contraceptives from a local pharmacy. But in Japan, you need to see a doctor for you to take them. Plus, they are also very expensive. The price is around 3,000 yen per pill. EXPENSIVE. In other words, if you want to take the pill in Japan, it will cost you a lot of time and money. In addition, there is still a lack of understanding of the pill in Japan. Everyone has their own reasons for taking the pill. Some people take the pill to
reduce the burden on their body caused by menstruation, and some others the pill for contraception. However, in Japan, there are still many people who have a biased image that "taking the pill = contraception = slut" (Excuse me for being blunt). Does it sound like a lie? Isnโt it crazy? Well, I think so too, but itโs totally true! It's certainly strange in Japan, where you always need to come up with an excuse like, "It's for my period!" everytime you take the pill. There is no doubt that these are issues that Japan must solve in the future. But for now, please keep in mind that this is the situation that we are currently facing.